I’m no marriage expert, let me say that right off the bat.
I’m undoubtedly not a couples therapist or anything like that.
But I can tell you that I’ve been married for 40 years and I’ve never sad once about a divorce. I believe there are a few straight-forward keys to our success as a couple. First of all, my buddy and I have superb communication and regularly compromise on everything. Secondly, my buddy and I take time alone and care about who my buddy and I are as individuals… Lastly, my buddy and I had our Heating, Ventilation, and A/C system upgraded to include zone controlled heating and cooling at least 20 years ago. I believe that this temperature control upgrade has been a major part of our continued happiness together. In the beginning my buddy and I fought often over the indoor air temperature and air quality. Whenever the energy bill came in the mail my buddy and I were destined to have a massive fight over the astronomical expense. There was no doubt we’d be fighting over temperature control settings and sleeping in different beds for the next week. As such, my buddy and I decided it was time to stop having so various temperature control adjustments take site. Instead of moving the air temperature settings up and down to compensate for our different air quality preferences, my buddy and I set up certain zones of comfort. After a month, our energy bill was lower than ever. Our certain air quality preferences were straight-forward to manage and my buddy and I never had to tamper with the temperature control again. My unbelievable friend and I stopped fighting so often, our energy bill was feasible, and our Heating, Ventilation, and A/C system was better than ever. I’m pretty sure this Heating, Ventilation, and A/C upgrade at least partially saved our marriage.