Although my pal and I don’t often realize it or feel about it, boys are often defined by their profession; An attorney is an attorney, even when he is not toiling.
An artist is an artist even without the paintbrush in hand.
My fiance is genuinely defined by his work, sometimes more than others. My fiance is an Heating & A/C business and, until recently, I didn’t realize how much his work defined him as a man or us as a family… You can tell a lot about my fiance by his work. For example, you know he respects the law because he passed a background check and his driver’s license is good. You know he has to be in some type of physical shape because the type of work he does demands it. He must be intelligent to go through two years of Heating & A/C training and certification courses, but, my fiance’s job as an Heating & A/C business also defines our socioeconomic status and financial wellbeing. As an Heating & A/C dealer, my fiance earns twice what I earn, and his supervisor provides the insurance benefits my pal and I depend on. My fiance’s work also defines our sitting in the community and relationships with family and close friends! People are constantly asking for Heating & A/C advice and my fiance is constantly willing to give it. He’s even looked at a few units pro-bono for friends and family. That’s what I mean by the fact that my fiance is more often defined by his work than most. It seems that even his spare time is consumed by Heating & A/C work. His work as an Heating & A/C business influences our lives in countless ways.