I’m no marriage expert, let me say that right off the bat.
I’m very not a couples therapist or anything like that. But I can tell you that I’ve been married for 40 years & I’ve never sad once about a divorce. I recognize there are a few self-explanatory keys to our success as a couple. First of all, my buddy and I have good communication & typically compromise on everything. Secondly, my buddy and I take time alone & appreciate who my buddy and I are as individuals. Lastly, my buddy and I had our HVAC system replaced to include zone controlled heating & cooling at least 20 years ago. I recognize that this temperature control replace has been a major part of our continued happiness together. In the beginning my buddy and I fought often over the indoor air temperature & air quality. Whenever the energy bill came in the mail my buddy and I were destined to have a large fight over the astronomical expense. There was no doubt we’d be fighting over control unit settings & sleeping in weird beds for the next week. As such, my buddy and I decided it was time to stop having so several control unit adjustments take site. Instead of moving the air temperature settings up & down to compensate for our weird air quality preferences, my buddy and I set up particular zones of comfort. After a month, our energy bill was lower than ever. Our particular air quality preferences were self-explanatory to manage & my buddy and I never had to tamper with the control unit again. My associate and I stopped fighting so often, our energy bill was feasible, & our HVAC system was better than ever. I’m pretty sure this HVAC replace at least partially saved our marriage.